HE WILL NOT COME UNLESS FALLING AWAY COMES FIRST

July 21, 2025

Series: End Times

Memory Verse: 2 Thessalonians 2:3

We are living in extraordinary times. Around us, daily, we witness the unfolding of prophecies foretold long ago. Yet, one particular prophecy often goes unnoticed, even by those who claim to believe in Christ: the prophecy of a “falling away” before His return. This isn’t just a theological concept; it’s a lived reality for many, and it might even be a part of your own journey right now, though you might not realize it.

 
The Bible, in 2 Thessalonians 2:3, speaks plainly: “Let no one deceive you by any means; for that Day will not come unless the falling away comes first, and the man of sin is revealed, the son of perdition.” This “falling away” – an apostasy, a deliberate departure from faith – is a clear signpost on the road to Christ’s return. And sadly, we see it happening all around us.
 

The Many Reasons for Falling Away:

 
The reasons people are falling away from their faith are as diverse as the individuals themselves. Consider these common scenarios:
 
The “Enlightened” Believer: You might know someone, perhaps even yourself, who has become disillusioned with traditional church structures or teachings. They feel they’ve seen through the “deception” of pastors or religious institutions, believing they’ve discovered a “higher truth” or a more “spiritual” path outside the confines of established Christianity.
 
They might explore New Age philosophies, Gnosticism, or simply adopt a self-styled spirituality that rejects any form of organized religion. While questioning is healthy, a complete abandonment of core biblical truths often stems from a prideful belief in one’s own superior understanding. Imagine Sarah, who diligently served in her church for years. Then, she started attending online seminars that promoted “ancient wisdom” and “universal consciousness.” Slowly, she began to view biblical teachings as restrictive and dogmatic, feeling that “true spirituality” was about connecting with an inner divine spark rather than a personal God. She started to distance herself from her Christian friends, labeling their faith as “limited” and “unenlightened.”
 
The Cultural/Historical Critic: For some, faith becomes entangled with historical and cultural grievances. They might see Christianity as a tool of colonialism, a foreign imposition used to suppress indigenous cultures. They delve into historical critiques, highlighting the misdeeds of religious figures or institutions throughout history, and conclude that Christianity is inherently flawed or even evil. This perspective, while acknowledging valid historical injustices, often becomes a blanket rejection of the faith itself, rather than a call for reform or a deeper understanding of its true principles.
 
Consider Thabo from a township in Cape Town. He grew up in a Christian home, but as he delved into post-colonial studies at university, he became convinced that Christianity was simply a tool used by European powers to subjugate his ancestors. He saw the missionaries as agents of cultural destruction, and the Bible as a text designed to disempower his people. This historical re-evaluation led him to reject his faith, seeing it as part of an oppressive system rather than a liberating truth.
 
The Disillusioned by Disappointment: Many have walked away due to profound disappointment. Perhaps they’ve been deeply hurt by church leaders, betrayed by fellow believers, or simply feel let down by a church that didn’t meet their expectations. Imagine the person who dedicated years to serving in their church, only to be gossiped about, overlooked for leadership, or even financially exploited. Or the young adult who saw hypocrisy rampant in the very people who preached righteousness. These painful experiences can shatter trust and lead to a complete abandonment of the faith, as if the actions of imperfect humans invalidate the truth of Christ.
 
Think of Maria, a devoted worship leader. She poured her heart into serving her church, sacrificing her time and energy. But when a new pastoral team arrived, she felt marginalized, her contributions unappreciated, and eventually, she was subtly pushed out of her role. The pain of feeling rejected by the very community she loved led her to question everything she believed about God and the church. “If this is how ‘Christians’ behave,” she reasoned, “then what’s the point?”
 
The Broken by Unanswered Prayers: Long-term struggles, persistent poverty, chronic illness, or unfulfilled promises can wear down even the most fervent faith. Think of the parent who prayed relentlessly for their sick child, only for the child to pass away. Or the person who faithfully tithed and served, yet their financial situation never improved, while others seemingly prospered without effort. When breakthrough doesn’t come, hope can dwindle, and the thought “God must not care” or “This isn’t working” can set in, leading to a quiet, gradual withdrawal from faith.
 
Consider the case of Sipho, who had been battling unemployment for five years despite constant prayer, fasting, and seeking divine intervention. He watched friends, who seemed less devout, secure stable jobs and prosper. Over time, a deep bitterness crept into his heart. “Where is God in my struggle?” he would ask. The prolonged hardship and lack of visible breakthrough eroded his faith, leading him to conclude that perhaps God wasn’t listening, or didn’t care about his suffering.
 
The Intellectual Skeptic: Then there are those who pride themselves on their intellect, finding the Bible “illogical” or “outdated.” They might dive into scientific theories that seem to contradict biblical accounts, or engage in philosophical debates that dismantle traditional Christian doctrines. For them, faith becomes a matter of intellectual ascent, and when they can no longer “prove” God or reconcile every biblical narrative with their worldview, they dismiss it as simplistic or mythical. They seek a faith that aligns perfectly with their rational mind, rather than one that requires humility and trust.
 
David, a brilliant science student, initially found comfort in his faith. But as he delved deeper into physics and cosmology, he started to perceive irreconcilable differences between scientific explanations and biblical accounts. He found it increasingly difficult to believe in miracles or a literal creation story. Eventually, his intellectual doubts outweighed his spiritual conviction, leading him to conclude that religion was merely a primitive attempt to explain the unexplainable, rather than divine truth.
 
The Unmoved by Experience: Some individuals have never had a profound personal encounter with God. They’ve heard stories, seen others moved by their faith, but for them, it remains an abstract concept. They might say, “I’ve tried to believe, but I just don’t feel anything.” Without that personal connection, faith can feel hollow and eventually fade away, as it lacks a lived reality to sustain it.
 
Emily grew up in a Christian home, attended Sunday school, and went to youth group. She knew all the Bible stories and understood the doctrines. Yet, she never felt a deep, personal connection with God. Her prayers often felt like talking to an empty room, and she never experienced the “peace that surpasses understanding” or the “joy of the Lord” that others spoke about. Over time, her faith became a rote exercise, and as she entered adulthood, it simply faded into the background, replaced by other pursuits that offered more immediate and tangible satisfaction.
 
The Lover of Self and Sin: And finally, for some, the “falling away” is a conscious choice driven by a love for sin or self over Christ. The demands of discipleship—repentance, sacrifice, obedience—become too burdensome. They prefer the immediate gratification of their desires, the allure of worldly pleasures, or the comfort of their own autonomy. They might intellectually acknowledge God, but their heart’s allegiance lies elsewhere, eventually leading to a complete separation from the faith.
 
Mark, for instance, found himself increasingly drawn to a lifestyle that contradicted his Christian values. He enjoyed the freedom of unrestrained pleasure and material pursuits more than the discipline of following Christ. While he initially tried to compartmentalize his life, the internal conflict became too great. Eventually, he made a conscious decision to abandon his faith, rationalizing that it was too restrictive and that he deserved to live life on his own terms.
 
Whatever the reason, understand this: your current struggle with faith, your disillusionment, your questions, your desire to walk away—it’s not necessarily because you’re “smarter” or more “enlightened” than others. While genuine questions and intellectual exploration are encouraged, sometimes, these reasons are simply the pathways through which an ancient prophecy is being fulfilled. The enemy, through various deceptions and trials, creates opportunities for the “falling away” to occur, and we, if not firmly rooted, can unknowingly become part of that statistic.
 
The Foundation That Will Not Fail:
 
So, why do people fall away? The common thread in all these scenarios is a misplaced foundation. Many believe their faith is built on:
 
Their Pastor: When the pastor makes a mistake, or their teaching style changes, the “faith” crumbles. Imagine a congregation deeply devoted to their charismatic pastor. When news breaks of his moral failing, many are utterly devastated. Not only do they lose trust in him, but their entire faith system collapses because their spiritual security was built on a man, not on God.
 
Their Church: If the church experiences internal conflict, or a new leadership takes over, they leave the faith. Consider a close-knit community church where everyone feels like family. When a schism occurs, and the church splits, members are left adrift. Their faith was so intertwined with the specific fellowship that without it, they feel lost and abandon church altogether, believing the institution itself failed them.
 
Christianity as a System: When they discover historical flaws or perceived contradictions within the broader Christian movement, they discard it entirely. Someone who views Christianity primarily as a historical phenomenon or a philosophical system might become disillusioned by the Crusades, the Inquisition, or the historical oppression committed in the name of the church. They then conclude that the entire religion is corrupt and unworthy of belief.
 
The Bible Alone (as an Academic Text): While the Bible is God’s inspired Word, if it’s treated merely as an academic text to be dissected and debated without a living relationship with its author, it can become a source of confusion rather than conviction. If someone approaches the Bible purely intellectually, seeking to find every historical discrepancy or scientific inaccuracy, and does not also seek the spiritual revelation of God through its pages, they might conclude it’s nothing more than an ancient book of fables, losing faith in its divine inspiration.
 
But none of these can be your ultimate foundation. Your pastor is human, your church is imperfect, and even “Christianity” as a human institution has its flaws. The true foundation of your faith is Christ, and Christ alone.
 
He is the Rock. “For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 3:11). Christ came to this world, became flesh, was called Yeshua, and was crucified for you. This is not a myth; it is a historical fact. He lived, He died, and He rose again, conquering sin and death. This is the cornerstone.
 
When your faith is built on Him, your faith is built on an immovable, unshakeable Rock. When disappointments come, when doubts arise, when the world tries to pull you away, you will not be easily swayed because your trust is not in imperfect people or systems, but in the perfect Son of God. He is unchanging, unwavering, and eternally faithful. His character is not dependent on the actions of His followers, nor is His truth diminished by the misinterpretations or failures of man.
 

An Encouragement to Stand Firm:

So, if you find yourself teetering on the edge, questioning everything, or feeling the pull to walk away, I want to encourage you. This is not the time to succumb to the “falling away.” This is the time to re-examine your foundation.
 
Shift your gaze from the imperfections of man to the perfection of Christ. Recognize that while people will fail you, Christ never will. His love is steadfast, His grace is sufficient, and His promises are true.
Anchor your hope not in what you see around you, but in the unchanging truth of God’s Word and the finished work of Jesus on the cross. The circumstances of your life may fluctuate, and society’s opinions may shift, but God’s Word stands forever. His sacrifice on the cross is a completed act that secures your salvation, regardless of your feelings or present struggles.
 
Seek a genuine, personal encounter with Him, not based on fleeting emotions, but on the unwavering promises of God. Open your heart, pray sincerely, read His Word with a hunger for understanding, and invite the Holy Spirit to reveal Christ to you in a fresh way. A personal relationship with Jesus transcends intellectual assent or emotional highs; it’s a deep-seated conviction that sustains you through all seasons.
 
The fact that you are even reading this, that you are wrestling with these questions, is an indication that there is still a spark within you. Don’t let the enemy, or the trials of this world, extinguish it. Rebuild your faith on the Rock. Cling to Christ, for He alone is faithful. He will not disappoint, and His promises will never fail. He is the same yesterday, today, and forever. In a world of shifting sands and crumbling foundations, Jesus Christ remains the secure and everlasting ground upon which you can truly stand.
 
Remember He will not come unless comes falling away first!
 
Brother In Christ: T Letjeba